| Mongolia was the first asian 
          and buddhist land I visited. It was the first very different country, 
          and at the end of this trip, it remains unlike any other thanks its 
          unique way of life and traditions, and its history. I met 4 other travellers 
          in Ulan-Bator, and we arranged our trip  via our guesthouse. Peg, from 
          the U.S. was teaching english in Mongolia and had learn some mongolian, 
          Tim from England, Roger and Fatima from Sweden were travelling just 
          like me. For a week, we bounced around in a 4x4 van across the steppe 
          and the desert, led by our funny mongolian driver. Every evening, he 
          would found in the middle of nowhere a "ger" (see note 1), the round tents you can see 
          everywhere in Mongolia, where there are people that is. For a week, 
          the nomads offered us their unforgetable hospitality and an unequalled 
          insight into their way of life and their traditions, so alive and so 
          fascinating. Mongolia remains one of the places I loved the most in 
          the whole trip. Here is why... When we arrived at a ger at dusk, we offered a few 
          simple gifts. Like in many asian countries, offering and receiving something 
          with both hands is a sign of respect. The left hand, considered impure, 
          should never be used in such situations and especially not to eat. Thus, 
          our small gifts (a bottle of "arkhi", mongolian vodka, a bar 
          of soap, a lipstick, a pen and a notebook, and a postcard) were offered 
          to our host or to the eldest person. The gifts were redistributed to 
          the members of the family : the vodka (always shared with us later on) 
          was left within easy reach, the lady received the bar of soap and the 
          lipstick (which she would wear next morning when we took some photographs), 
          and the kids were happy to start scribbling with the pen on the notebook. 
          The postcard, a view typical from Mongolia, nothing unknown to them, 
          nevertheless captured the attention of the whole family. It was then 
          placed carefully on a frame, on the only one piece of furniture at the 
          back of the ger, along with photos and other postcards.We regretted 
          not having photographs or postcards from our respective countries to 
          show them. 
 While the tea was being prepared, we played dice or 
          card games with our host and the kids, who were quick to learn the rules 
          and eager to play. They also taught us a game with knuckle bones. Mongolian 
          tea is not your usual cuppa. A handful of small twigs (rather than leaves) 
          are boiled for a while in much water, then a laddle of milk (from cow, 
          camel or goat) is added along with a pinch of salt (it's not so bad). 
          The only one stove is dung fired (no wood around here) and cooking followed, 
          inevitably mutton and rice, mutton and noodle, sometimes potatoes with 
          mutton (fatty chunks rather than meat, as a sign of honour for us, boiled 
          and served as a soup). Toasting with vodka was soon a well practice 
          procedure. Bottles with capsules, once open, must be finished. Only 
          one glass passes around. First, the host or the eldest person dips the 
          right hand third finger in the glass, and throws a few drops in the 
          air, "to the sky", a few to the ground, "to the earth", 
          and a few towards the rest of us, "to the people". He or she 
          the downs the vodka. The host fills the glass again and then passes 
          it to each of us in turn, offering with the right hand, the left hand 
          under the right elbow, and we receive the same way. It is impolite to 
          refuse in Mongolia. When Roger proposed a cigarette to our host who 
          did not smoke, he took one out of the pack, and then with a smile and 
          a wave of the hand, put it back in. He did not refuse. We were offered 
          once a bowl of "airag" (fermented mare's milk, a slightly 
          alcoholic, slightly fizzy but very bitter product) from which each we 
          took just a sip, leaving the son of our host to down the rest. I was in Mongolia at the 
          beginning of October. The Gobi (see note 2) was 
          still quite mild during the day but the steppe further north was already 
          getting seriously cold, covered by a layer of snow 5 - 10 cm thick in 
          some places. The ger, heated by the stove, was pleasant, but outside 
          it was probably down to -10 deg after dusk. This did not stop the wife 
          of our host to step outside in a T-shirt to pick up some dung for the 
          fire. The ger being round, with the stove in the middle and sometimes 
          two beds on either side near the wall, we had to work out which layout 
          was best to fit the 6 of us (including the driver).This space is normally 
          occupied by 4 or 5 members of the family. We lied down on the ground 
          on thick sheep skins, wrapped in our sleeping  bags and covered with 
          more sheep skins by our considerate driver. Indeed, the fire was not 
          always kept going all night. In the morning, breakfast (see dinner for the menu) 
          was prepared by the wife of our host, while our driver was busy heating 
          up the engine of the van with his scary kerosene blow-torch (also used 
          to cook lunch on the road). We washed our faces rapidly in the freezing 
          morning air with ice cold water.  Toilets were about 50 m away in any 
          direction, behind a few taller blades of grass (sometimes there was 
          a hole in the ground, surrounded by a few planks to hide it a little). 
         As 
          we started our breakfast, the van accepted to start and our driver joined 
          us with a triumphal smile on his face. We never left before taking some 
          pictures, our hosts always proud to pose for us and with us in front 
          of their ger, on their motorbike or on their horse. I have never seen 
          people so happy to have photos taken. It will be difficult for reprints 
          to reach them, but it is worth a try, since they will be so happy to 
          receive some pictures. Then we were ready to set off. One of our stops was a little different. The lady 
          was living with her grand-son only, as the rest of the family was away 
          with the cattle (see note 3). Instead 
          of a ger, she was living in a small hut, with ... a solar panel on the 
          roof, a battery, therefore electricity and even a small TV set. In the 
          morning, she asked us to take some photos of a painting with horses 
          done by her late father. The colours were fading with time and she wanted 
          a copy. As we were leaving, we caught through the fogged up windows 
          of our van, a traditional and most beautiful gesture from her, as she 
          threw a laddle of milk in our direction, as a sign of blessing. 
 see more photos from Mongolia __________________________________________________________ Note 1  : Pronounce "gair". The word "yurt" was 
          introduced by the russians and is not used by the Mongols, but by the 
          Kirghiz and the Kazakhs. Note 2 : The Gobi is not a sand desert as often pictured, 
          but rather a vast and arid yet diverse expanse. The landscape sometimes 
          seems endlessly dead flat and the ground is covered in small dark pebbles 
          or dotted with with small dry shrubs, then a few hours further it becomes 
          more hilly or mountainous. In the south a huge sand dune (800 high, 
          100 km long, 20 km wide) stretches to the horizon. But I only saw a 
          fraction of this immensity... Note 3 : The steppe can accomodate cows, horses, sheeps and 
          goats. The Gobi, being more arid, is more suitable for camel, sheep 
          and goats. Yaks are also reared in more mountainous areas. Cattle is 
          protected from wildlife by huge and agressive dogs which sometimes chased 
          our van as we drove past a ger or a herd.   |